Om C. Parkin
Personal enlightenment is a myth.
– Tony Parsons
Full Interview with Om C. Parkin by John David
I first met OM in 1993 in Lucknow when I invited him to hold a Satsang (meeting in Truth) in my guesthouse. Since then we have met just once, for this interview. During the conversation I was intrigued by his interest in Western Mystics. I have been very impressed by the high quality of his publications over the years. OM has recently became a father.
– John David
Questions and Answers
Sri Ramana proposed the fundamental question, ‘Who am I?’- Who are you?
Many Western seekers come to India looking for enlightenment as if it is an experience, What is enlightenment?
Are there any qualifications for enlightenment? Is sadhana (spiritual practice) necessary? If yes, what form do you advise?
Sri Ramana said that Self-enquiry is the most direct route to realising the Self. What do you say about Self-enquiry? How to conduct Self-enquiry?
When Sri Ramana was asked, ‘When will the realisation of the Self be gained?’ he replied, ‘When the world which is what-is-seen has been removed, there will be realisation of the Self which is the seer.” What is the true understanding of the world? How to remove the world?
It has been suggested that the mind must be destroyed for liberation to occur, Do you have a mind? Sri Ramana used the term manonasha to describe the state of liberation, meaning destroyed mind. How to destroy the mind
What about vasanas, the tendencies of the mind? Must these be removed before Self-realisation can become permanent? Is it enough to achieve a sattvic (calm and peaceful) state of mind and to know one’s vasanas so that they no longer bind? How to remove the vasanas?
Sri Ramana’s devotees had tremendous devotion to him, and he to Arunachala. Please say something about bhakti, devotion, in the pursuit of awakening.
Seekers often have curious ideas about the enlightened state. Please describe your typical day and how you perceive the world.
You have given us a profound discourse on awakening. When you meet a passion for awakening, what would your short advice be?
Tony Parson's teachings
Tony Parsons is a prominent figure in the realm of spiritual teachings, known particularly for his emphasis on non-duality and the concept of the “Open Secret.” His teachings focus on the following core ideas:
Non-duality
Parsons promotes a radical understanding of non-duality, emphasizing that there is no separation in existence; everything is one, and the sense of a separate self is an illusion.
The Illusion of the Self
He articulates that the conventional sense of self — the ‘me’ or ‘you’ — is fundamentally non-existent. There is no seeker, no enlightenment, and no guru, which challenges the traditional teacher-student dynamic in spiritual pursuits.
Absence of Spiritual Practices
His teachings are marked by an absence of prescribed spiritual practices such as meditation or rituals. He argues that these can reinforce the illusion of a separate self that is capable of achieving something like enlightenment.
Human Suffering and Liberation
In “The Open Secret,” Parsons delves into the nature of human suffering and presents a view that true liberation comes from realizing the non-existence of the self, rather than through traditional spiritual or religious methods.
Communicating Paradox
His communications highlight the paradoxical nature of non-duality, exposing the misconception that it is something attainable or possessable.
Through these teachings, Tony Parsons offers a perspective that challenges conventional approaches to spirituality, suggesting that enlightenment is not a state to be achieved but a recognition of an already existing reality.
appears in
Blueprints for Awakening – European Masters
European Spiritual Masters
John David has been interviewing fourteen European Spiritual Masters. The result is a compendium of astonishing wisdom about the biggest secret of all times: the Nature of our True Self and how to realise it.
This book answers all questions of the spiritual search and is for everyone who has an inner passion to find out who they are.
Other Ramana Maharshi Books
NEW: Aham Sphurana – A Glimpse of Self Realisation
Fascinating dialogues and stories of Sri Ramana Maharshi recorded by Sri Gajapathi Aiyyer in the summer 1936, at Ramana Ashram.
This book contains a selection from the complete manuscript Aham Sphurana. This selection, a brilliant treasure, speaks for itself. Beside the detailed teachings on Self-Enquiry, Surrender and Jnana, it exposes a new glimpse of Bhagavan’s personal day-to-day life at fifty-six, in his middle age.
The Book is available in English and German, as Ebook and Paperback.
Biography
Tony Parsons, born in London in 1933, underwent a profound spiritual awakening at the age of 20, realizing his nature as unlimited awareness. Initially sharing his insights privately, from 1996 onwards, Parsons began public speaking and hosting retreats across Europe. His work draws on historical non-dualistic teachings from various traditions, including Advaita Vedanta, Zen Buddhism, and Christian mysticism, integrating them with contemporary scientific insights from neuroscience and physics. His approach, often seen as radical within spiritual communities, dismisses traditional paths to enlightenment, emphasizing instead the immediate and ever-present nature of reality. Parsons’ key message is the non-existence of a personal self and the illusory nature of dualistic perception. He details his transformative experience in his first book, “Open Secret,” and continues to influence through both writings and talks, challenging the conventional views on spiritual attainment.
The problem with the concept of enlightenment is that people have certain ideas of how enlightenment manifests, and Westerners, when we look at the collective colouring of the idea of enlightenment, have in their minds the archetype of ‘holy’ because the manifestation of enlightenment in a human being within the Christian tradition has always been identified with the holy.
– Om C. Parkin
